I am dating Mr. Perfect.  He is so fine.  Each time I look at him I am amazed that he has chosen me to be  his mate.    His full lips part into a warm smile revealing beautiful pearly whites. He’s tall enough for me to wear my 3 inch heels and still find myself 1 inch shorter. He’s in great shape and when he wears his athletic T-shirts those toned arms and chiseled chest beckon me for a caress. I love his scent not his colonge but his natural smell without any artificial fragrance.

We NEVER argue about anything.  We merely have disagreements and even those rare moments end with a declaration that we will “agree to disagree”.  We have very open, honest and direct communication. While we dont always share a simlar point of view he respects my opinions right to one. In fact our relationship can be describe as a circle of reciprocity.

This man  makes homeade chicken soup that he spoon feeds when I am not feeling well.   He is bright and well read,  never is he without  witty conversation or interesting information on a  topic of interest. I can take to him to events that  require a tuexdo or chill around the way in sneakers and shorts.  He fits in where ever we are, always with appropriate conversation to match.  

My friends and family adore him, they see how he treats me and thinks he’s a wonderful man. He loves my sons often joking that that he could be their father. This only makes me smile. His mother loves me; she believes that I am an improvement over his past relationship.  She thinks we are great together.

He’s a professsional with a great job and and second gig on the side as he believes in generating multiple revenue streams.  I love his hustle.  He plans dates and getaways making all necessary arrangments and all I have to do is show up.  My man is remarkable support offering only kind words and a healthy critique.  He has proven him self a faithful, loyal and commited friend in every sense often  coming to my rescue time and time again.   He is remarkably thoughtful repeatedly going above and beyond to ensure my satisfaction. He expresses almost daily how much he appreciates me and that he is thankful for my presence in his life.  Never once has he disappointed me.

My baby picks up a broom, washes dishes and makes wonderful meals not because I ask but because he sees that it needs to be done.   When his friends tease him that is he is pu$$y -whipped he replies “Maybe I am, so what?  I’m happy! I AM HAPPY!”.    He has no issues with me having my friends while he has his  and he is all in favor of my “Ladies Nights’  with my girls.  He is fully aware that other men find me visually appealing and views their advances as a compliment to him and his sense of taste. My honey plans for ahead and makes it clear that I am  a part of his future.   He respects me and I respect him.  We are nice to each other just because we care for each other.  I proud to call him my partner.  Isn’t he perfect?

Then I woke up.  Ladies and gentlemen, the ideal mate or partner is in our heads and respective imaginations.    They say we have to give and take it’s really only a matter of deciding what you are willling to give and what you are willing to take. My description is an interpretation of what I want ideally but I know somwhere within “Mr. Right For Me” may not be Mr. Perfect. The beauty of having Mr. Perfect is that I can always visit him in my mind even after I do find “Mr. Right For Me”. What are 5 key attributes of your Mr. or Ms PERFECT?