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Tyra's real hair

Tyra's real hair

I spent my final year of undergrad doing my best to analyze some of the reasons why black women chemically straighten their hair and the difficulty associated with breaking the habit. In my thesis I essentially defined natural as hair that is not chemically straightened. Fast forward over a decade and I am baffled to find that “natural” hair is hair that is not weaved. Tyra Banks sometime ago had a big reveal where she unveiled her “real” hair. For Tyra this was a huge moment as she spent a majority of her adult life wearing some other hair rather than her own. While I commend Tyra on her bravery in taking this bold step I wonder about the state of the Black woman’s psyche when we claim to be “real” or “natural” sporting hair that has been chemically straightened. I stand by original claim made over ten years ago that natural hair is the hair that has not been chemically or heat trained to remain straight. It is the hair that sits on top of your head immediately after it has been washed and totally void of chemical straightening agents. I know in this day and age very few things are truly natural. And for all intents and purposes if we wanted have truly natural we probably would not even comb or style our hair. However I must question: has our collective consciousness shifted so far toward a straight hair ideal that we somehow believe a relaxer is an integral part of our beauty ritual, similar to a comb or oil, or shampoo? Has our sense of what is real or true become so hazy and contrived that we willfully subject ourselves to the notion that chemically processed hair is natural?

As I attempt to reengage in the conversation on Black women’s hair and encourage dialogue I think it’s important to state that relaxed hair without a weave is simply that: relaxed hair. It sits on one end of the spectrum of hair textures while the curls, coils, waves and kinks of truly natural hair sits on the other. Chemically and artificially straightened by definition is not naturally straight. When we compare it to hair that you can buy at a store and attach to your head yes it is real, but if we compared relaxed hair to the hair that grows out of your scalp to my mind it is not only unnatural it is fake or false. Now if deciding to shed the weave if only for a moment is cause for celebration and adulation, I wonder what a conscious effort to end the addiction to the creamy crack (chemical relaxer) would bring about?

Team Ninja University-School of the Martial Arts

Team Ninja University-School of the Martial Arts

I started karate a few months back and I LOVE IT! It’s a great work out and it enhances your stamina and confidence all while learning self defense. It’s a work out that doesn’t feel like working out. Another HUGE bonus is that it’s something my boys and I can do together. Tournaments consume at least 8 hours and sometimes they require travel out of town and over night stays in hotel rooms, so I figured if I am going to be around I might as well join in all the fun. At first I felt a bit self conscious with my white belt but then I saw seniors competing and I thought “It really is never too late to begin.” Promotion is coming up and I dont intend on being a white belt much longer.

In the meantime the boys and I are competing. I just had my first tournament and I took first in 3 categories: self defense, sparring and forms (kata). I also got to see some of my competition in action and it’s just motivation to hit the dojo. Overall the team was excellent, with these young people collectively securing over 40 trophies. Many thanks to the Senseis particularly Grandmaster Eugene David Floyd and Drill Sgt. Back to the grind on Monday and I am looking forward to it!

 

Karate Kid

Karate Kid

My sons have been training in karate for approximately 2 years.   Recently I’ve decided to don the karate ghee (uniform) and began formal training. With their yellow belts my boys are a higher rank and don’t waste any time in correcting my form when I am doing  my kata (exercises).   I sparred for the first time ever last week. My opponent was  a  6′ 2″,   17 year old. There was so much to keep in mind.  For instance I gave up a point because my opponent demonstrated  “control”   by throwing a blow to my face without striking me.  I blocked  a shot with my fore arm and yelped, “Ow, he  hit me!”  The sensei’s responded with a look that said: That’s the idea you are sparring and yelling:  ”Places, Go!”.   I lost with a score of 6 to 5, but I enjoyed the match thorougly and  I finally got over the anxiety of never having sparred.  For the first time I was able to empathize with how my boys feel in the ring.  At 7 and 5 they’ve taken  first,  second and third in a few tournaments .  I was proud then, but after having my first sparring match,  I gotta say I’m pretty impressed by the little guys.